Help? Well there is this guy I met in a school event but we come from different branches,so we dont see much but we always text. It lasted for months And i started to like him and i thought he likes me too but when i thought we were “M.U” na, I started to introduced him to my friends and making more efforts to meet him but when one night he asked me for my friend’s number,after i gave him the number we didnt text much after that until it led into no text at all. 

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HMA response

That guy was a jerk and he is not worth your love at all. You deserve better than how he treated you. It’s better to just scrap this guy. Warn your friend about this guy…he is not a gentleman…not at all. Forget him…HE IS NOT WORTH IT. Even if this guy had all the money…the looks…and the fame…i wouldnt date him even for a thousand years…never ever. 

Hey Anne! I was just wondering if you could help me with something. I don’t know who else to run to. I have this best friend. We’ve known each other for quite a while. It was only last year that I realized how much I actually like her. The problem is, we’re both going to college but in different schools. She’s been telling me about how she’s doing recently and I’m just afraid that now that we won’t be seeing each other much anymore, she’ll fall for some other guy. What should I do? Thanks

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Hey, I like someone but… my best friend likes him and he like her before. But I think he likes me now. Even though I have a crush on him, I can’t be with him. I don’t want to break my best friend’s heart. What should I do ?

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Hi miss awesome,

So a couple weeks ago, I met a guy through a mutual friend (though I met him online).  We talked for weeks, pretty much all day long and skyped all the time.  I was really starting to fall for him and I know he liked me a lot too the only problem was that the week before him and I met, him and his girlfriend of over 2 years broke up.  So obviously, while him and I were talking he still had very strong feelings for her.  He was honest with me though, he told me everything even the things I didn’t necessarily want to hear because he didn’t want to hurt me.  They ended up getting back together recently and him and I decided it’d be best for us not to talk and even try and be friends until enough time passed.

The problem I’m having right now is I’m having a lot of difficulty getting over him.  I know it’s only been a few weeks since we’ve talked but I liked him a lot.  He’s the only guy I’ve met who I thought was perfect for me and who really accepted me and was there for me.  What kills me the most now though is that everytime I try to not think about him something always happens, like for example I work in an office and it seems every few minutes I accidentally come across a patient with the same name, which gets me thinking about him again.  Also, as ridiculous as this sounds, I have difficulty believing someone as good as him will come along even though I know I’m young and that’s stupid but I can’t get over it right now.

Do you have any advice as to how I could help myself move on from this and stop overthinking all of that?

Thank you!

HMA response:

Hey I do understand how hard it is to get over the guy but you really dont have a choice. Youre lucky though because the kind of relationship you had with him is the kind wherein you both are not deeply connected…you were in a stage of “getting to know each other” but at the same time you fancy each other’s company. Just try putting him in the past as someone you shared a good friendship with and though it wasnt really able to kick off with you guys, there’s a guy destined for you.

Just be happy for the guy because if he is important to you, you’d wish for what would make him happy. It takes time to forget…to move on…but it’s not hard to look forward in the future…knowing you’ll meet someone as dashing, as nice, as cute as him (or even better).

I don’t know what I am for him. Maybe I’m just another girl. Just a name on his list, a dim memory. But what he means to me? He is my everything. I can’t live without him! He’s like the rain in the desert of life. He makes me laugh when I don’t even want to smile. Sometimes he is acting weird, or he’s angry, but no one is perfect. And I think I love him! I love him with his little defects… his cute laugh, his beautiful smile, his funny hair, his blue eyes..I love it all! The only thing standing between us is reality. I felt special until I saw him talk to everyone like that. I had to realize that in my desert will never rain. I’ll stand here forever and die…die a little inside every day. He tells me I’m important for him and I know it’s true. I just can’t accept the fact that I’ll be just a second choice, a B plan, a friend in his life. I want to be more! I want to be the girl of his dreams, the girl that he’s telling his friends „I think I love her”! And it’s NOT what I feel about him. It’s what I don’t feel for anyone else. He’s not my friend! Friends don’t look at each other like we do.  Just for a moment I want him to feel what I do. I want to give him a big hug and never let go..feel his heartbeat and his warm arms around me. His voice is the best song I ever heard! But what am I for him? Will this name on his list ever become something more? I can’t answer these questions. I’ll keep my secret forever and I’ll act like a friend, because that’s what he wants. I’ll stay with my boyfriend and wear a mask, I’ll hide my feelings under the pillow and go on with my life. Some people are meant to fall in love but not to be together…

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