Hey Anne! I was just wondering if you could help me with something. I don’t know who else to run to. I have this best friend. We’ve known each other for quite a while. It was only last year that I realized how much I actually like her. The problem is, we’re both going to college but in different schools. She’s been telling me about how she’s doing recently and I’m just afraid that now that we won’t be seeing each other much anymore, she’ll fall for some other guy. What should I do? Thanks
In my opinion. It’s better to just confess what you feel to her rather than keep it within you…coz if you do keep it a secret, you’ll be carrying that burden in the future. I know it’s tough to confess it especially that you’re unsure of your future. When we confess our love, we kind of hope for the other person to feel the same way you do. But it shouldnt be like that. Confession should be done without any expectations. You confess because of yourself…because you want to be free. So tell her what you feel and just keep in mind that you do it because you want to be free. It is also the only way and I think the best way for you to know if she feels the same way about you to. If it doesnt work the way you want it to work, then just move on…move on with peace of mind. You cant just move on with confessing because it’s like opening a book and closing it…getting rid of it without even finishing up the last chapter.