LoveOutBox

Patricia (natylacou@hotmail.com) submitted: 

Well, there is this guy (A), who was really close to me. We both liked each other and were really great friends, but then i started talking with another of my friend (B) all the time, because A and me stopped talking. And one day A took B`s cellphone and started talking to me and then B told me to send him the chat so I did and A saw that  I had send him the chat and now he says that he trust me no more and that he would never forget that,  and I think i still like A, so I told me how can i gain back your trust? and he said thats something you have eto tell me please help mee I want to gain back his trust

OMG, his had happened to me with my bf before. I dont know if it will work but you can tell him, Im sorry, I hope you forgive me. People make stupid mistakes all the time, and me asking forgiveness proves how much love I have for you and how I wish for our relationship to continue. I have showed you my love and I’ll continue showing it…ten times more than before. I cant bare to lose you and if you give me this second chance, I promise you wont regret it. And if you do, then i’ll accept the fact that I dont deserve someone as great as u:)

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Anonymous asked: 

i really like a boy like really bad,whenever i see him i get this sudden rush off butterflies like i cant breathe,but the thing is i dont know him like i see him everyday in the shop he works at but i dont know hardly anything about him.i know its stupid to say i like him when i dont kknow him but didnt they say when you know hes the one hes the one &i have a feeling he is.i wanna speak to him but i dont know what to say or what to do or anything.help please:( x x x x

How can you say he’s the one when you havent spoken to him. You have to realize that people might turn up differently once we get to know them more. If you wish to know this guy, a simple smile wouldnt hurt…if you gather up the courage, you can finally say hi to him. Who knows, a situation might call for the opportunity for a convo with him. Its time to stop looking from afar, time to make your move.:)

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foreveer-and-alwaaays submitted: 

My love

Hey! Well I just needed to let this out. Well there is this guy , his name is Rudy & OMG he is amazing. Like in one day I fell in love. He came over to my house & it happened then & their. At first I just considered him as a friend, but then he told me he liked me. I was so excited & everything was going well. He just recently broke up with his girlfriend, so everything is good. But , now I don’t know of he still likes me & I think I just text him & talk to him just a little too much. I don’t mean to annoy him but I just like him SO much. What do I do? HELP!!!

If he gets annoyed… you’ll feel it. If he gets annoyed of you he’ll stop talking to you or treating you badly. Since he’s not doing that, he must like your company. Continue staying by his side. Dont make a move or confess right away since he just broke up with his girlfriend. You dont want to be a rebound relationship…you dont want to be the girl he just hooks up with to forget his past. Wait for him and the girl to move on from each other. You also have to consider the exgirlfriend’s feelings. 

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sleeping-clocks asked: 

HI! gosh, I looooove your blog! Been stalking it for like 5 months? hehe.. I was the one who submitted my kinda short lived love story(i guess).uhmm I really wanted to go anon but my story wont fit in your ask box. Just wanted to inform you. And, in case it gets published as one of your stories, is there something you could do to make me anon??? :)))) Thanks! Stay wonderful!

Anonymous asked: 

Hello, My boyfriend just dumped me last April and idk why, he moved on and i haven’t :( and it feels really awkward especially when we meet in the hallway in our school, I really need to move-on but , what should i do? My heart wouldn’t listen to my brain, please i really need your help :”(

This is normal. It’s hard to move on especially if you loved the guy so much. It’ll help if you kept yourself preoccupied…hobbies,going out with friends,meeting new people, the list is endless when it comes to distracting yourself. I think the very first move you should do is to get rid of everything that reminds you of him…those dries rose petals you kept, the bears and figurines he gave, all those saved text messages and letters you have from him. Delete his phone number fully, nothing personal, but if you isolated yourself from him…little be little you’ll find yourself moving on. Time to move out of that circle you made for you and your ex.Leave everything…no traces. Sounds brutal but it’ll help you. It’s more brutal if you let yourself feel miserable missing him while he moves on. 

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Anonymous asked: 

ahmmmm.. i just have a short story here .. kc ung g.f ko nkipagbreak saken this week lng .. sbe nia gusto daw nia munang magfocus sa pagaaral so kaya cia nakipagbreak .. ask ko lng kung kelangan ko paba ciang hintayin ?? ndi ko tlga kase alm kung anu na gagawin que .

Remind me of myself. Kailangan mo lang irespeto yung desisyon nya. If  you want the best for her then you’ll listen to her. Tama yan…tanungin mo sya if may punto ba if hihintayin ka nya…if yes then ayos…friends muna..both mag concentrate sa work/study. if not…then I guess respect her decision..move on and just support her. At least if gusto nya ng total break up..u broke up wishing for the bets for her…u end it with a good note. 

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Anonymous asked: 

Hey :), so first things first, your blog is pretty amazing! I actually love it :). So erm, I know your advice isn’t fool proof, which is cool, cause you’re only human but I was wondering if you could help me? There’s this guy and I really like him, we talk over facebook a bit but he will only talk to me face to face when we’re with other people, otherwise he just mumbles. Would it be rude to ask him if he found me annoying? Does this mean he likes me? Please help? kthanksbye :) xx

We cant conclude he likes you right away. Some people just comfortable of one on one convos. As of now, I wont say Yes. But if he does make a move, flowers, asking you out, confession and so forth. Then yes. 

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Anonymous asked: 

heyy, ok.. how do u start a convo with some one you havent talked to in a loooonngg time, like the last time you talked to him was in primary school. Help! because i think i like him…:)

Simple. Just say HI. Stay casual. Hi, how are you, it’s been a long time. He’ll ask you back…from there you conversation will just flow, that is if you keep cool. 

loveeellie submitted: 

Hey Anne, I was wondering if you could help me with something. Give me advice or anything. There is this guy in my class who I never noticed. Let’s call him Aiden.  Until one day we became science partners in every project. We’d always fight playfully but I didn’t mind at all. Then once school ended and summer arrived, I finally realized I liked him. As in like-like. I began to overlook his actions in our science project days. He seemed like he liked me too. I then told my best friend that I liked Aiden. Lets call her Scarlet. She hated the guy ever since my friends made a rumor that Aiden had a crush on Scarlet. But then the very next day, I received a text in the early morning from Scarlet. Scarlet: I need to tell you something. Me: Yeah? Scarlet: I had a dream where Aiden told me he liked me. I think I like him now. I think I have a crush on him. I didn’t know what to do. I had mixed emotions inside of me.  Then he added me on this MMORPG game which was popular in our class. Scarlet and I would constantly stay near his character and just watch him. (Yes, we seemed like stalkers.) When Scarlet wasn’t around, Aiden and I would always talk to each other. But when Scarlet went online, Aiden would go offline because he hated her (from the rumor.) Then a week later, I received a new message from Scarlet. Scarlet: I’m sorry Me: ? Scarlet: I told Aaron ( Aiden’s best friend and the guy created the rumour ) I never forgave her but we stayed best friends. After that happened, Aiden unfriended me, started ignoring me, and treating me like how he did to Scarlet on the MMORPG game. He would immediately go offline or run away. I’m confused. I thought Aaron told Aiden. I also thought Scarlet could’ve. I don’t trust anyone of them as much as I did before. I regret so much. I think he hates me.  I want to tell him I have a crush on him but I’m afraid. The last person who confessed to him was Sakura. When he found out, he called Sakura a w**re. But it seemed like he liked me back but now, I don’t know at all. Could you help me?

Anne:

First of all, It was unclear to me what scarlet said to aaron, did she tell him that you like aiden? 

From what I read, news about who-likes-who travels via rumors. In my opinion, you shouldnt get swayed by these rumors because you arent sure if they are true, who spread them or did it really spread. Rumors can make or break bridges, all depends in the situation. You can depend on hunches or 3rd handed news….you shouldnt believe words that came from someone who knows someone who heard someone. If you want to be sure about his feelings, well there is one way to know.

Erase all the rumors and what other people say. If you want to know the truth, his feelings towards you, whether he is ignoring you or liking you back…GET THIS INFORMATION FROM THE PERSON. Ask him or if it’s too sudden, just stay close to him, dont listen to your friends or to his bestfriends. If he likes you…he’ll tell you…he’ll make you feel loved. If he sees you as a friend…you’ll know that too. 

Goodluck and I hope you we can stay in touch…update me with your story.

Anne

w-e-always submitted: 

When I was twelve, I lived across from a boy, named Will, who was just a few months older than I was. We didn’t get along. He was mean, and all of my friends had little crushes on him.

One day, Will introduced me to his friend, Abiagil. We ended up being very close, this girl and me. Because we were friends, and they were friends, Will and I were forced around each other and eventually became close friends.

When I was 13, almost 14, Will and I started having feelings for each other. There were two problems: my parents didn’t approve, and I was moving a city over the next month. 

I was afraid that He and Abigail would forget about me during the summer, but they cared enough to make sure we stuck together all summer.

Ninth grade came, and Will and I had been together for a few months. His parents told him to brake up with me, so we started going out behind their backs.

Right before tenth grade started, Will moved hundreds of miles away. Everyone said we wouldn’t even make it for two months. 

It’s been a year since then, and we’re still together, and have no intentions of splitting up. 

When things get hard in a relationship, you work harder.